If you’re facing an unexpected pregnancy and don’t want another abortion, it’s essential to know that you have other options—which include parenting and adoption. 

Read on to learn more about these options and the factors to consider when thinking through what’s right for you. Or, if you’re looking for a safe, nonjudgmental space to talk and learn more, contact Metro Women’s Center. All appointments and resources are free and confidential. 

Parenting

Parenting might feel impossible, given your current life situation. However, it’s critical to know that while worries about a lack of support or financial stability are understandable, your circumstances can change. What feels impossible today can become possible in the future by taking small steps in the right direction. 

With this in mind, the most essential question to ask yourself when it comes to parenting is this: Do I want to parent, even a little bit? If the answer is yes, you owe it to yourself to explore this option thoroughly. These questions can help you get started:

  • What are my biggest concerns when it comes to parenting?
  • What practical steps can I take to overcome these concerns? (For example, if you’re worried about money, can you seek a degree or certificate to get a higher-paying job?) 

Adoption

Adoption is an option for those who may not be ready to parent but want to ensure their child has a stable and supportive home. 

Adoption is centered around an adoption plan, which takes into account your desires and goals. There are three main types of adoption plans: 

  1. Open adoption: In an open adoption, you and the adoptive family maintain direct contact, which might include visits, phone calls, and emails. Open adoption allows you to stay connected with your child and provides transparency and ongoing reassurance about the child’s well-being.
  2. Semi-open adoption: Semi-open adoption involves indirect communication, usually facilitated by an adoption agency. You and the adoptive family exchange letters, photos, and updates without direct contact, offering a balance of privacy and connection.
  3. Closed adoption: In a closed adoption, there is no contact between you and the adoptive family after the adoption is finalized. All identifying information is kept confidential, providing privacy and a clear separation.

We’re Here for You

We understand what you’re going through right now. But you’re not alone in this. At Metro Women’s Center, we’re here for you. 

Contact us today to schedule your free, confidential appointment. While the choice about how to move forward is yours alone to make, we’re here to walk alongside you and give you what you need to make an informed decision.